'We all have at least two sides. The world we live in is a world of opposites. And the trick is to reconcile those opposing things.'
David Lynch
We're all made up of different personality parts. Some sides, we share proudly, l others we hide. We all have soft and gentle sides, hard and stubborn. We're all sometimes the reader, and other times the storyteller. We love the total sensation of total freedom, yet also, the desire to be held or bound.
As I've moved through life I've come to the same conclusion as David Lynch. It's far healthier to embrace and reconcile each of our sides, even those we've chosen to keep a secret. That doesn't necessary mean everything you do needs be shared, it just means that's important not to waste energy hiding something that's not really hidden.
Most of our secrets, and most of our 'other' sides are most likely already known, at least to those who know us the best. Even if they're never discussed, they're known. There's a joy and a power to owning all that we are, even the parts we fear others won't support or accept.
Most
FH readers know photographer and model
Saki. I've been featuring his work, (
HERE:) both in front of, and behind the camera for close to a decade. Initially, I focused mostly on the Paris based artist's work as a model and his beautiful nudes and self-portraits. Not only was I drawn to Saki's visuals, but I also loved the quiet, sensual mood that he captured.
Maybe in part it's his French location, but Saki's images always conjure up for me an erotic European weekend afternoon. A sunny Sunday in rented villa spent with a new lover. Of course there's a sexual component, but the predominate sensation is intimacy. The type of intimacy you only feel once, the initial discoveries about the person whose body is wrapped around yours. Learning their passions, what stimulates them, their quirks, and the many sides of who they are.
Saki seems to always beautifully discover many sides of the men he works with. This was certainly the case sexy and sultry
Alex Hey. Alex is not stranger to posing nude, and was totally comfortable in front of Saki' lens. Saki shares that Alex is definitely a exhibitionist, and had no problem with any of the poses, or shooting fully erect. Alex and Saki have worked together twice now, and both hoping a third is on the way.
When I dove into Saki's large portfolio from his work with Alex, I quickly noticed the many sides of Alex he captured. The images in this series are what I call the sensual series. That quiet feel and beauty that I love so much about Saki's work. Sometimes, depending on the artist and model, erection shots can change or alter the feel of a image series. With Alex, they flowed so beautifully, maintaining the set tone.
I think part of the reason is because Saki's focus wasn't just on Alex's body parts. As incredible as they were, Saki was capturing Alex, and his beautiful form, in it's entirety. Saki and Alex were creating a mood and telling a story. That Sunday afternoon with Saki's lens exploring the many sides of the man on the other side.
As stated though, Saki captured many sides of the Paris based model he was shooting. In addition to this 'quiet' sensual side, there was another facet of Alex's personality also chronicled during their time together. It's interesting how although different, there was also a streamline to the visuals. Although very different, they weren't opposites. It's like that reconciling of sides that David Lynch referenced.