There is no magic to having babies. Every species of animal, even plant for that matter, have the capacity in one form or another to reproduce. Raising an offspring then, often has little to do with birthing. It is the parenting that is the key.
Like most of you, I was touched by the story this week about Magic Johnson’s support of his gay son. It is always heart warming to see a man, maybe especially so one so closely associated to the world of sports, so open about his love and support for his child. Why was it then, that the longer I pondered the story, a news story no less, the more it nagged at me just a bit.
I am aware of course that stories such as this are part of the reason that there is more mainstream acceptance of gay people, and gay marriage, with the public. The more celebrities who are open, the more public figures embrace the normality of the lifestyle has only helped. Yet, as the week went on, I began less enthusiastic about viewing this story as a positive news item.
When highway patrol officers pulls people over on the highway, they don’t generally pull drivers over to compliment and praise them for following the speed limit. Now, one could argue that they should, but currently, they don’t. They pull over those breaking the law and give them a message, either verbally, or financially with a ticket, that they are doing something they should not be doing.
Why is it then, that when it comes to gay culture, we point out when people are doing exactly what they should be doing? We should not or course discriminate, we should be supportive of people being who they are. Parents should instinctively want to support the children they chose to raise. Maybe it would be better, to draw everyone’s attention on those parents who are not supporting their kids, the parents who cause emotional distress and pain on those they at one time vowed to love and protect.
In case it wasn't clear, there are no criticisms of Magic here. I love that he is supportive of his son. I guess I am just not sure I am OK with it being something heroic, extraordinary or newsworthy. I want it just to be what should be done.
2 comments:
When I read the story about 4 pro footballers possibly coming out I had mixed feelings about that. I wish it didn't have to turn into an event.
-Chris
It's a bit like a eulogy for someone who has recently died along the line of: " He really loved his wife and children," stated in dramatic emphasis.
Nice to know, but is this thought to be a crowning achievement? An exceptional characteristic? Or have we reached the point where the act of loving, especially loving your own family, is considered newsworthy?
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