'I feel a deep calling to help others (just like you) awaken your senses and unlock the unique secrets of your pleasure body.'
Devah Curlechéile
Some of you may have heard of the new UK reality series Virgin Island. The channel 4 show takes 12 adult virgins to a Mediterranean island to live together. With so many people are remaining virgins for longer, the show welcomes the adult virgins on a journey. The goal, an unique intimacy course with the goal for the 12 participants to overcome their intimacy anxiety.
'We're going to invite you, one by one, to claim your body. We're asking the group to take off their robes and stand in front of the mirror, and in front of the group.'
Episode four is all about helping the 12 virgins reclaim their body. They do this with a little exposure therapy. The participants are asked to strip completely naked in front of the group, then step in front of a mirror to won and reclaim their body. There are helped by the shows sex therapists, and for this episode, by sensuality coach Devah Curlechéile.
Devah strips down and shares that although he now loves his body, he struggles with dysmorphia. When Devah looks into the mirror, he shares he doesn't see the same thing that everyone else does. Growing up in Ireland, Devah always had strong intuition that there was more to existence than he was being shown or taught.
'This curiosity led me to leave the country at the age of 21 and start traveling the globe to find answers to questions I was unable to even articulate at that time. I travelled the earth for more than 20 years gradually unlocking the pleasurable potential of my human experience through tantric practices, meditation, shamanic healing and sexual intimacy.
Some highlights of this journey were teaching myself tantric orgasms while recovering from my broken back in 2009, experiencing the complex world of the Japanese BDSM underground in Tokyo, and meeting a recent lover who understood tantric energy circulation in a way that allowed us both to reach transcendental states of consciousness through love making… a potential that I know resides within you too!'
'People might think that a penis really sensitive and, like, delicate or something, but it's not- you can really apply a lot of pressure. It doesn't hurt, you know? This is obviously the shaft, here. This is the glands. And this part back here, the frenulum- well on me, anyway-it's the most sensitive part.'